Well, you could try using natural based products and see how they perform on your hair. Mineral Indulgence has natural products for relaxed hair and they helped with my daughter's relaxed hair. I purchase the Relaxed Hair Regimen as it's cheaper than buying the products individually. Plus you get a free scalp butter for hair growth if you get the regimen.

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There is a difference between thinning hair, and hair breakage. There are several things that can cause thinning hair, diet, drugs, heredity,hair styling products and hair styling techniques.When you think you have hair loss, your first step should be a microscopic hair loss analysis. Microscopic hair analysis uses proprietary polarizing microscopic analysis to identify the causes of hair loss, and thinning hair and provides active recommendations to restore hair growth and thicker, healthier hair,

Some products are designed to work for men and women. These products will invigorate blood supply, stimulate the root. A good kit will include a DHT BLOCKER,hair energizer vitamins for fast hair growth, and deep cleansing follicleanse shampoo.
For healthy hair, the hair growth obstacles must be removed by a deep cleansing shampoo(folli-cleanse) The hair blood supply must be re-established with a stimulator and circulation enhancer(follicle stimulator) and finally the hair follicle must irrigate hormones and bacteria that thin hair(enzy block)

You must choose products that are natural, no side effects, and have been tested
Develop healthy hair and scalp with effective, natural-based shampoos, conditioners, vitamins, and oils. Hair care products deep-clean while infusing vitamins, proteins, and botanicals for hair growth, body, and overall health.

Reduce thinning and hair loss, reduce dry and oily hair, treat itchy scalp and dandruff, repair damage from breakage, frizzing, coloring, chemical treatments, and overheating. Address slow growth and hair loss with the most effective follicle stimulators, hair vitamins, shampoos and conditioners. Treat the source of common hair problems for all hair styles with Nourish Hair Products!

Emu Oil Conditioner
The Healer! Awakens sleeping follicles! Helps prevent thinning hair!

Great conditioner for people with sensitive scalps. Emu Oil Conditioner Omega 3's are so important for healthy hair and emu oil is loaded with deep-penetrating Omega 3's.

Rich in Panthenol and Jojoba Oil to lightly add vital protection and heal damage. Helps repair damage from chemical treatments, bad perms, and thermal damage. Restores shine, brilliance and health.

Emu oil is known as the follicle awakener and has been used by many to help prevent the onset of gray hair. Your hair needs omegas to grow as they should. And emu oil is the only ingredient that we know that can moisturize the hair enough to get it back up to an 8.4% moisture rate as it is supposed to be. Extremely beneficial to the scalp as well.

Excellent daily restorative conditioner. Great for split ends of dry hair Helps hair to grow properly. Adds brilliance and shine moisture shampoo and extreme conditioner work wonders to get hair back to the moisture level that it should retain.

More moisture in the hair and scalp means that you can style more easily to prevent hair damage while styling. BGreat for all races including those that are searching for black and ethnic Hair Products.

Ethnic and black hair products should contain a lot of moisture and there is no better moisture that emu oil.

African Americans and Caucasians use Emu Shampoo and conditioner with great results.